Relationship What is Death 22 Jun 202022 Jun 2020 One of the most useful things about our minds is that they can in some moods allow us to step outside of ourselves – and consider our death from a…
Affairs… How To Handle the Desire for Affairs? 4 Apr 202015 Apr 2020 In a better world, affairs wouldn’t continuously threaten those with monogamous aspirations. Couples would quickly recognise when emotional disconnection was building up between them; they would take direct, timely steps…
Calm… The Importance of Staring out the Window 30 Mar 2020 We tend to reproach ourselves for staring out of the window. You are supposed to be working, or studying, or ticking off things on your to-do list. It can seem…
Relationship… Problem of SEX and LOVE 30 Mar 2020 Let’s posit the following scenario: Tomas from Hamburg is on a business trip to Portland, Oregon, when he meets Jen. Both of them are 28 and in the computer industry.…
Social virtues Why Truly Sociable People Hate Parties? 27 Mar 2020 The idea of being a sociable person is nowadays heavily associated with finding enjoyment in going to, and in all likelihood also in giving, parties. To be sociable means welcoming…
Dating… What to Eat and Drink on a Date? 26 Mar 20203 Apr 2020 Restaurants have traditionally enjoyed a crucial and privileged place in the history of dating, providing us with enough privacy to get to know one another and enough public scrutiny to…
communication… How to Comment Online? 24 Mar 20203 Apr 2020 Comment sections online should be the beautiful public squares of our democracies: places we navigate to for frank and thoughtful exchanges of ideas; places where we learn to understand each…
Affairs… When Does An Affair Begin? 23 Mar 202023 Mar 2020 Once an affair has been uncovered, we often ask – in the position of the betrayed, pained party – when it began. Pinpointing the precise moment promises to shed light…
Dating… How to Seduce Someone on a Date? 19 Mar 20203 Apr 2020 On a first date with someone we like, we really want – of course – for the evening to go well. There are many, varied bits of advice in circulation:…
Conflicts… Love and Sulking 16 Mar 2020 One of the most exciting aspects of the early days of a relationship can be the sense that a lover understands us without us needing to speak too much. With…